TYPO3 Core

Database connection parameter `tableoptions` was a pure
TYPO3 implementation, while doctrine/dbal provides the
same support by using `defaultTableOptions`.

On top of that, doctrine/dbal migrated from `collate`
to `collation` in the table options in v4 completly.

That has been silently transformed in the past, and
slighty refactored recently along with migrating the
collate to collation option the same way.

A E_USER_DEPRECATION should now be emitted when on
of these options are migrated to raise the awareness
that the configuration needs to be adjusted and the
migration code can be droppt in a future TYPO3 version.